begging your friends over facebook chat not to drive home after they’ve been partying… < < <
i’m trying to figure out if moving out in september is the right time for me
because i know when the restaurant picks up on business in the winter months, i’ll be getting just as much, if not more, hours as i am now. and my pay grade is high enough to warrant sharing an apartment. so i don’t think finances will be a huge issue, i’ll just need to get a lot smarter with my money (even though i barely spend anything unnecessary as it is).
only thing holding me back on making a concrete decision is that i have my final stats class this fall, which also involves a friday lab, and i don’t want to be weighed down with getting off work at 11:30 pm to 12 am, and then having homework to do as well.
i know people do it all the time, go to school full time and work full time, i’m just trying to figure out if it’s the right time for me to do this.
random road trip to salem tomorrow with the main bruh
When I was a kid I thought your 20s were supposed to be fun, not filled with perpetual anxiety about financial stability and constantly feeling like an unaccomplished piece of shit.
That’s because it was fun for baby boomers and they basically gave us this impression it would always be like that, but then they ruined the economy.
really weird because my parents struggled financially through their twenties
i was talking to my mom about moving out today and i said that i felt like doing this should feel easier and less anxiety-causing, because that’s how everyone makes it out to be
and she told me that you’re never not going to be stressed or anxious when you’re out on your own. you won’t be stressed out 24/7, but it’ll always be in the back of your mind, “what if i’m short on rent, or can’t buy groceries.”
and that made me feel oddly better about the prospect of moving out.
i know im only 21 but sometimes i see mutual follows who are just now turning 16 and im just
if you’re my friend and you flake on me four times in a row, i’m just not asking you to hang out anymore
we’re still friends, but i’m no longer making an effort to see you if you can’t have some fucking decency in place of a shitty excuse